The premise is that giving is good for you. More specifically, as Kristoff and WuDunn, explain:
A growing body of knowledge in psychology and neuroscience suggests that altruism is good not just for the beneficiaries but also for the benefactors. The argument is that helping others makes us happy, and even leaves us healthier and able to live longer lives.
I must admit to a certain amount of skepticism about some (well, most) of what happiness experts – yes, they exist – say. But I was impressed by the authors’ willingness to subject themselves to MRI scans to see what happens in the brain when people help others by donating to a good cause.
The experiment was conducted at the University of Oregon by Ulrich Mayr and Wiilliam T. Harbaugh, who have been studying the science of altruism for over a decade. It goes like this:
- The pleasure zones of the brain include the nucleus accumbens, the septum, the caudate and the insula. These hot spots, which are quite close together, respond to pleasure of all sorts.
- Research subjects’ brains were scanned as they were told they had received gifts of money and they were given the opportunity to voluntarily give money to charity.
- Parts of the nucleus accumbens showed more activity when gifts were received and adjacent parts lit up when people made donations.
- The results suggested that people vary significantly in the pleasure they derive from giving, and about half of the subjects seemed to get more pleasure from giving than receiving.
Interesting. Researchers now are trying to figure out why people feel happy when they give.
In particular, they are trying to distinguish between what they call vanity (gaining respect of others for being generous) as opposed to selfless altruism. My research on donor motivations hasn’t included any MRIs but I would agree that different people give for different reasons.
I believe that philanthropy offers the opportunity to satisfy each of the four dimensions that make us feel successful in life including, yes, happiness. The three others are achievement, significance and legacy. (See Figure 1)
I am somewhat uncomfortable attaching value judgments to any motivation for doing good, especially when one gift can supply more than one satisfaction (e.g., finding a cure for a disease afflicting a family member) and the impact – on both the beneficiary and the benefactor – tends to be cumulative.
Figure 1. Elements of Success
One study that I find interesting was conducted a decade ago by Jonathan Haidt, now a professor at NYU’s Stern School of Business. It suggests that we each have a preset happiness level, and that one of the few things that will actually raise it is to connect with a cause greater than ourselves.
A Path Appears describes other research including a study that followed 268 Harvard students from college to old age, and concluded that altruists aged more gracefully. Another study showed that giving reduces stress as measured by blood pressure. Conclusion: Give and you will be happier and live longer.
I will leave it to you to judge for yourself. I don’t know if I’m fully convinced but it does make me feel even better about both my giving and my fundraising. Perhaps we technology-enabled 21st century folks are just catching up with the wisdom of the ages….
Some Happiness and Giving Quotes
If you want happiness for an hour, take a nap.
If you want happiness for a day, go fishing.
If you want happiness for a year, inherit a fortune.
If you want happiness for a lifetime, help somebody.
– Chinese proverb
They who give, have all things; they who withhold have nothing.
– Hindu proverb
The happy man lives well and does well.
For it is in giving that we receive.
– Francis of Assisi
I slept and I dreamed that life is all joy. I woke and I saw that life is all service. I served and I saw that service is joy.
– Kahlil Gibran
I don’t know what your destiny will be, but one thing I do know: the only ones among you who will be really happy are those who have sought and found how to serve.
- Albert Schweitzer
Since you get more joy out of giving joy to others, you should put a good deal of thought into the happiness that you are able to give.
– Eleanor Roosevelt
 A Path Appears: Transforming Lives, Creating Opportunity, Nicholas D Kristoff and Sheryl WuDunn, Vintage Books, 2015, page236.